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Angel in Love: Lessons on being the Romantic Man (part 2)

English: RKO publicity still from Suspicion (1941)

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(part 2) Lessons from an Angel (Cary Grant) on being a Romantic Man.

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Julia: I never know what to think. I never know when you’re joking or serious.

Dudley: When I’m joking I’m the most serious.

 

My thought: Being playful and doing the unexpected captures the woman’s interest. Dudley is being wonderfully paradoxical, and has no need to explain himself. The romantic man can keep his woman off balance by being playful and taking her on an adventure. I remind you, do not cover up your chronic anxiety with humor, get a therapist and do the work of coming to peace with yourself. Remember men, the humor is never at her expense. Kid her for sure, but never put her down with your humor. Instead, treat her like your 10 year old sister – be playful and kind. When you have to make a choice, make yourself the butt of a joke, it’s much more endearing, and shows you have the ego strength to handle it.

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Henry: What’s that you’re singing dear?

Julia: I don’t know, is it something?

 

My Observations: Henry, the husband is noticing for the first time, that when his woman is paid a little attention, her spirit comes alive. Your woman is craving for your attention. This wife has not manipulated the attention being paid to her, she’s being feminine. Remember, in their old neighborhood she was well known, and well liked. Her feminine spirit opens people up. Notice though, when a woman comes alive, she’s brighter, more energetic, more alive, more vibrant, more attractive – and she doesn’t even notice it at first.

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Henry: I like to watch your brushing your hair.

Julia: Is that a compliment?

Henry: You’re so capable … everything you do is so, capable.

My comment:  Dooough! Has it been so long since you’ve flirted with your wife Henry that you forgot how? Did you stop flirting after you got married? Are there more important things to do than romance your wife? You dolt! Let’s take a walk, Henry, I need to teach you a few dozen things.

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Henry: If there’s anything I pride myself in, it’s that we live a well-ordered life.

My rantings: Dooooough! Henry! Don’t make me open this can of whup-ass! You pride yourself in a well-ordered life? Ohmygawd Henry, your wife wants to be part of an adventure, of a life spent in something larger than herself. She wants to be your love, not your nanny. We’ve got some learning to do here Henry, are you teachable. You can have her responding to your touch, and your voice in quick time, if you’re willing to learn the secrets of romance.

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Henry needs some help here. He’s about to sink even lower. I need an aspirin. Follow along in part 3.

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